I have come to realise that the main problem facing any 'religious' or would-be spiritual person is that the traditional concept of God is so WRONG!
Does a God of some sort exist? Well, if the purpose of our life is to progress spiritually, what or who are we progressing towards? Therefore does it follow that 'God' or the 'Source' must exist? Or are we progressing towards the ultimate perfection of ourselves? And is this perfect version of ourselves actually part of the Source? I have, certainly in the past, found that believing in an afterlife is easier than believing in a God, but that's because my concept of God was wrong.
What God is NOT!
However, of this I am certain: it is easier to say what God is not than what God is, since words are inadequate to describe something as infinte as God. I'm not intending to offend anyone, but the more I think of it, the more ridiculous some concepts of God appear. Problems come as soon as we start to think of God as a person: has God got a long white beard? Does God sit on a throne? This is ridiculous nonsense - has he got buttocks then?! Does God have human weaknesses - does he get angry or vengeful? Does he punish people? Or perhaps 'he' is a 'she'? All this is nonsense. It is because humans have needed to 'reduce' God to something understandable that God has become a superhuman human being, along with many of our human faults!! It is high time that we jettisoned these old, limiting ideas. If some people need to think of God as a loving person, then make sure that that love is truly unconditional, and doesn't ever, ever stop, no matter what you do. However, the idea is still limiting. I quote - "we have made God in our own image".
It is important not to think of God as a kind old man looking after his world, because then you might blame God for 'tragedies' and other 'acts of God' - see below under Does God interfere...? And is there such a thing as God's will anyway?
Actually, problems come as soon as we use the word 'God', because that word instantly conjures up traditional images of a person as described above! However, since I am trying to relate what I think 'God' is, I will have to use the word to a certain extent anyway.
I do not believe that 'God' has a particular physical appearance. Spirits who are highly progressed no longer need a physical appearance. (And when I say physical here, I include the finer physicality that is in the spirit world, as our loved ones who have passed on tell us that they seem to have just a solid a body as they did on earth, only a much better one!)
Some people (on earth) say we shall 'meet' God when we die. Well, if so, we won't be shaking hands with 'him'. That meeting will be on the deepest soul level possible, like meeting our true selves. You might say "but if he wanted to, being God, couldn't he appear in human or any other form?" I would reply that as we and all creation are part of God, then he has/does in a sense - but not as an all-powerful, fearful God - that would not be right at all. Spirits, and many people who have had a Near Death Experience (NDE) say that they can sense God all around them as the most amazing and complete feeling of love and acceptance. We are also told that there are manifestations or representations of God in the 'next' world.
I also believe that after death it will still be 'almost' an eternity before we are ready for that most final of re-connections. BUT, we shall nevertheless feel so much closer to the source of infinite love (aka God), than we can ever understand in this physical body, so do not get me wrong: we will not feel separated from God unless we are so full of hatred and unkindness that we cannot bear to be in a place where Love is. If so, that is our choice, not God's punishment. There is a big difference between feeling connected with God and actually re-joining with God as part of 'him'. If we feel separated from God now, it is only an illusion caused by the grossness (ie. low vibration) of our earthly bodies and this earthly existence. We all need to be more aware of that connection. Meditation is one of the best ways to begin to achieve this.
Incidentally, God does not have to be worshipped. Why would 'he'? That would imply that he is egotistical and needy. And no, you do not need to go to a church - the universe is the church! (Actually this was the first and a very strong message that I remember receiving at about the age of 12: I was just sitting alone quietly on my grandparents' sofa and I asked the question in my head "Do we have to go to church to pray?" and immediately I got the answer "No, anywhere can be a church." It was such a clear answer that I went all hot and cold. I wasn't even expecting an answer, but I knew that someone had spoken to me inside my head and that it was not my own mind. It must have been one of my spiritual guides. Looking back, that was one of the clearest communications I have ever had.)